Sex Guide For Men: Orgasm Manual - Shoot Her To The Moon And Back (Spice Up Your Sex Life (For Him & Her) Book 1) by More Sex More Fun Book Club

Author:More Sex More Fun Book Club [Book Club, More Sex More Fun]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Published: 2017-02-06T00:00:00+00:00

Chapter 6: Additional Tips To Help Both Of You Out

We’ve discussed techniques, positions and procedures. We’ve tried to understand the history of the female orgasm, what influences it and how to achieve it. While techniques and positions are great, remember that a woman orgasms as much from her mind as she does from her body. To help her get there, you need to ensure that her brain enjoys the experience as much as her body does. Here are some additional tips to help you get brain and body in sync and take her to the ultimate explosion.

Stop Worrying About Time

Your worry is about how long you may last. For her, the worry is about whether she’s taking too long. As I’ve mentioned earlier, women do take longer to achieve an orgasm than do men. Having said that, it is very possible that she feels self-conscious about how long she’s taking to get there and therefore ends up faking an orgasm rather than making it to the finish line.

To help her out with this one, take the pressure off her and yourself. Tell her that she and you have the whole night to get where both of you need to go. She needs to relax to be able to have an orgasm at all. So, let her do that and focus on the journey. Show her that not only are you in it for the long haul and that you like (as in really like) her sexual responses. The better she feels about this, the more likely she is to achieve climax.

Use Your Talent

Whatever it may be, it’ll turn her on. Croon ‘Careless Whisper’ or show her your etchings (before you show her your ‘etchings’). Studies at the Kinsey Institute show that talent is actually a greater turn on for women than chiseled abs or film-star good looks. If humor is your forte, use it. Connect with her on this level and she’ll feel more comfortable with you and more attracted to you.

Tell Her What You Like About Her Body

Again, as I’ve mentioned earlier, body issues can become a great big roadblock on the way to orgasmic bliss for her. To reassure her and remove this roadblock, tell her what you like about her body. You don’t have to make stuff up – after all, you do like her naked, right? Just tell her.

Be Gentle Up Top

More than the areola and the nipples, the top, bottom and sides of her breasts are sensitive. Gently brush your fingers, hands and lips on these areas. Pay close attention to her responses. Slowly build up to the nipples. Once the arousal builds, her nipples are ready for your attention and so is she.

Learn What Strokes Play Her Just Right

Remember, we women like a slow buildup. Hard and fast doesn’t always work out so well for us. Here’s a way you can build up the stimulation. Lying next to her, place the heel of one hand just above her clitoris. Next, you need to run your middle finger and your ring finger along her outer lips.

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